How do I Start a Conversation about Advance Care Directives?

Starting a conversation about advance care directives is a meaningful gift of clarity you can give your loved ones. We believe that care always matters, and having these discussions before a crisis arises reduces uncertainty and ensures your voice is heard even when you cannot speak for yourself.

We recommend beginning with these steps to foster an open and compassionate dialogue:

• Reflect on your values: Before speaking with others, think about what gives your life meaning, your fears regarding medical care, and how you define quality of life.
• Choose a trusted proxy: Identify a person to serve as your medical power of attorney (healthcare proxy). This should be someone who understands your beliefs and will honor your wishes even under emotional pressure.
• Share your specific wishes: Use an unhurried, tender conversation to discuss the treatments you would or would not want, which can then be documented in a living will.
• Involve your care team: Our social workers, chaplains, and nurses are here to guide these sensitive conversations with warmth and patience. We treat your family like our own and can help you navigate the necessary forms and legal requirements, such as notarization.

Remember, these documents are not final; you can update your advance directives at any time as your health or circumstances change.

Please consult with a healthcare professional for personalized medical advice. Patients may discontinue hospice services at any time; hospice care focuses on comfort rather than cure.

• Advance Directives Guide: Living Will and Medical Power of Attorney